Recovering From A Job Loss

recovering job loss

Having a job that pays well and makes you happy can give you the best feeling. The excitement of getting up every day with a smile on your face and an enthusiastic frame of mind surely does wonders to your confidence as well as your professional life. However, not all days are fine and dandy, and chances are you may experience sure highs and many lows in your career. People get laid off or are not entirely happy with what they are doing work-wise. Whereas some are stuck in the wrong job and are looking to break free from monotony. Whatever may be their reason, quite a few of us have seen days wherein we are without a job. And trust me when I say this, the feeling is awful. However, not having a job can be a good thing as it has the ability direct you to positive changes that you require to get into the line of work that suits your skill-set. So what should a person do or what are numerous ways to recover from a job loss?


The Power Of Acceptance

To begin with, acknowledge the fact that you don’t have a job at the moment. You win the battle when you stop fighting your feelings or resist them. There’s no shame in getting laid off or resigning from a job you despised. Even if you got fired for a legitimate reason or a fault of yours, ‘accept it.’ Contesting your feelings covertly will make matters worse and push you into a victim mode only to make you feel bad about yourself and your situation. No one likes a person who cries hoarse about how unfair life has been. This world was here first, and it doesn’t owe you anything. No one presents happiness to you on a platter. You have to work hard to achieve it – be it work, relationships or life in general.


Plan Of Action

Get your space from family and friends to think about what requires your attention next. Take your time and give this a good thought. It doesn’t matter if days or weeks. Be in no rush whatsoever in getting back to work. You may feel disturbed about your situation but to be honest, these feelings are going to fade away soon. Deal with your emotions bravely and admit to the changes you need in life. When you think you’re ready to get into work mode, then have an open mind and get on with it. It will also be an excellent opportunity to look for other avenues or a new field you always wanted to explore. Go back to school if you haven’t finished your Degree or maybe contemplate freelancing. There are umpteen options to opt for. All you’ve got to do is silence the noises in your head and let your heart and soul show you the way. You’ll get a response soon.


Organizations That Value You

You’ve worked enough for bad bosses who didn’t bother to appreciate the hard work you put in at the office. Don’t let history repeat itself. Look for companies that value its employees and who ensure they feel motivated to come to work. In fact, employers too are interested in candidates who are passionate about the organization rather than just looking forward to a fat pay-check. It seriously doesn’t matter if your curriculum vitae or cover letter stand out from the rest. With the global economy taking a hit and still trying to manage its footing, there are several out there competing for the same position. The 2009 recession made many lose their jobs, and due to that, you have fierce competition and a colossal task ahead of you. Look for new skills that you can master and include them in your résumé to add fresh selling points that can be easily highlighted.


Get Social-Networking

Thanks to technology, the world is now a small place these days. Having social media accounts is essential as it can get you a job faster. Your Facebook and LinkedIn profiles will give Human Resources a tour of you as a person and the skills you bring to the table. So, ensure all these accounts are nicely spruced up as well as optimized to make you shine in front of a potential employer. Google yourself and see what comes up. If you think your social media isn’t giving the world facts about who you are as a person, then work on them so that it resonates with your personality. Delete embarrassing pictures and eliminate unwanted profane posts and messages. You’d want to keep it decent and clean. Look for jobs that suit your skill-set. Upload your résumé, on job portals and let your friends and acquaintances know that you’re looking for a new job. Word of mouth is something that many disregard but letting people know about your job situation can work in your favor and land you the position of your dreams. So, keep your options open and above all, have a positive outlook.


Take A Chill-Pill

Well done on reaching this far. All you’ve got to do now is, wait for that interview call. Until that time, don’t forget to relax your body, mind, and soul. Do what works best for you. Read, run, walk, cook, paint, write or work-out. There are endless things to do while you’re anticipating the phone to ring or that email to arrive in your inbox. Brush up on your speaking skills. Go and shop for some nice formal attire. Read what interviewers ask off late and look for ways to crack that interview. Don’t let it play on your mind. In case you still feel jittery about it, here are some quick tips to help you prepare for an interview.


Mind It

Your subconscious is an essential part of your brain. The way you process information and your experiences in life, it handles accordingly. Therefore, refrain from any negative self-talk and discard words like “I can’t.” Reinforce positivity in everything you say and do. Be happy to be back in the job market and make sure you don’t repeat any past mistakes that you regret till today. Having a job is important as it feeds you and your loved ones. But no situation can be so sorry for you to lose sleep over. It doesn’t matter what the job market looks like; there’s always room and jobs for hard-working and good folks..